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Perspective: Is Being A Married Man’s Side Chick A Curse?

He will spend hours with you and still go back to his wife, he will give you a hundred orgasms & tell you to take emergency pill, if you dare get pregnant he will tell you to abort while he celebrates his wife missing her pees.

He will ask you to be faithful to him, when he has someone else. While you are in the background, he will post photos of his beautiful family, talk highly of his wife & talk about how he loves his children while he disrespectfully tell his friends what a whore you are in bed. .You are left to wonder about this love he talks about, if he really loves you, why does he make you do all those things to your body & make you believe you supposed to be behind the scene?

How can you even be comfortable being in a relationship that requires you to hide whenever you’re with him. Keep quiet & listen to him talk to his wife while you lie on his chest after sex at a lodge? How do you feel when you call him, he cuts the line – Only to send a text saying. “I am with my wifey, call you later”?

Does he really value you? Does he respect you? Does he love you? The answer to these questions is NO.!!!
He is using you for sex & when he gets tired, he will throw you away because to him you are just another cheap girl.

Wake up my sister.Instead of breaking your back in bed for a married man in those lodges, break the curse of being a side chick because you deserve better.

Written  by George Kuniro Naluba

63 Comments

  1. one kay

    Good advice

    • hummer where it hurts

      Next time bring an article on the adulterous working class. There is too much cheating in these offices.Most hit are families where the woman is the bread earner while a man is a retiree or worst enough a loafer.

    • itizi turu

      Why should the whole blame fall on the side chick? If you have such a wonderful family why do you need a side chick? Just as much as you are using her, the side chick is equally using you.

  2. Jk

    tell them, idoits whore’s

  3. Buck Teeth Lungu

    Why do they do it? It is a symbiotic relationship. The women get fantastic orgasms, pocket money, phones, cards, rent money and trips to lodges while the wifey suffers at home with the kids. Who is to complain?

  4. sandy

    Well said, those with ears let them hear .

  5. Andrew mwaanza

    True and a good advice to those with ears.

  6. yakoniyako

    its fyn

  7. kalulu

    That’s what life is, even in the bible men like David any many more had side chicks

  8. Chitamawe

    Syd chiks shud think twice.

  9. Ped@ze!!!

    That’s yrue , watch out our sister’s from those sex users who just use u for sex while they are in marriage with another woman and chit he lives u but he fails to answer yo call when he is with his wife. Pliz go girls stop those stupid manners, stop other’s husbands and look for single mens out there.
    sign: ped@ze!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!¡

    • concerned citizen

      Well spoken this include even married women who leave their husbands just to disturb other people’s marriages especially wives to soldiers busy drinking beer even late in the night shame

  10. zedoc

    Problem is to think it is the men who are to blame when single girls are more often than not throwing themselves at married men for ‘ fun’ and material things.

    • Trump Mazoka

      Zedoc, u are rite. Womeñ love fuñ.They can’t resist gosip, wild sex, a lot of money and other goodies that go with it. Gud advice tho.

  11. Zambia

    Gate it right

  12. Zambia

    Gate it right wise advise

  13. Mpalasha

    Same to women

  14. Gossipper

    We go for side chicks because there are certain sex styles whch are rubished by the wife as foolish forgetting that it brings anxiety.

  15. andile

    This side chick, main chick and blesser game soooo shady! Smh¡

  16. Fair

    adulterous and sinful generation.

  17. Kamuyongole

    A man is made for multiple women while a woman is made for only a single man. Those who think they can’t share a man with other women please get out of here!!!!!!

    • hummer where it hurts

      Kamuyongole,sihanyezi mulimu adamu ni Eva ki two was bulalu kili hata.mbamba kalilandula sipi yeshu!!!.

    • hummer where it hurts

      Kamuyongole,sihanyezi mulimu adamu ni Eva ki two was bulalu kili hata.mbamba kalilandula sipi yenshu!!!.

  18. Moira

    Comment The bible clearly states that the wages of sin is death! The God we serve gives us a second chance . Dating a married man is another way of stealing! Therefore ” Thou shall not steal “.

  19. Mwaba

    Don’t just call them side chicks and blame them. There are a lot of ex marital relationships from both sexes. In this life we don’t always marry our soul mates. Lets not be one sided. Blame the man for cheating and lieing to that poor girl. Women simply fall in love with what they hear,men fall in love with what they see.

  20. Chadiza

    tel them as 4 me i cant

  21. BBCAA

    let them know

  22. BBCAA

    GOOD ADVISE

  23. Chitamawe

    Kamuyongole,, watch out!! AIDS wl catch up wth u. Multiple sex partners r detrimental 2 health. Beware!!!

    • mwape

      Very true …someone has been told off indirectly, shez been gutted with the truth…so when she emerges,she’ll be like “ecl this and that” koma apa ni ziiii! #foward

  24. munsanje christian

    who uses who when the two pipo re havg sex?Am confused!

  25. gagg

    nice advice bro, God bless you….

  26. Chisenga

    THE WRITER IS SIMPLISTIC IN HIS APPROACH. THE WOMEN WHO DO THIS KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. THEY GET MONEY, SOMETIMES THE MEN PAY FOR THEIR RENT AND BUY THEM FOOD AND LITERALLY SUPPORT THEM. SUCH ARE THE WORST OF WOMEN. SUCH DO NOT EVEN CALL WHEN THEY KNOW THAT THE MAN IS WITH HIS WIFE. NEVERTHELESS IT IS A SHAME STILL. I THINK THEY NEED CHRIST IN THEIR LIVES TO CONVICT THEM OF SIN LIKE THE WOMAN AT THE WELL IN THE BIBLE.

  27. juve

    Comment
    Now these poverty levels what do you expect a woman to do ? infact most of these women who are in this category are prostitute I don’t think a lady eyeing for a marriage can accept married men for what.

  28. Rozzy Big Boss Mwi

    Women prostitutes are foolish, l don’t blame them,they deserve it.blinded idiots

  29. prude

    Comment
    Don’t blame the side chicks the problem is us married women and men…..you men like living us in suspense whenever there is love making so now us ladies we look for someone to satisfy us……peace

  30. Nainendimuntu

    Good advice. Must confess that I was in such a relationship for 15 years. The idiot dumped me . Later I heard he also had other side chicks with even kids. I regret this affair and most painfully the wasted years. Please heed this advice before it’s too late for you.

  31. Muzo

    Women give sex,were as men give love through material things eg money, cars,clothings,rentals,expensive phones,airtime etc.In actual sense there’s no real love. Buy a packet of bubble gum,start chewing, believe me you will finish the whole packet only to realise that there’s no sweet in you mouth. My dear sister watch out,keep your diginit you have high value in the eyes of God

    • concerned citizen

      Well spoken this include even married women who leave their husbands just to disturb other people’s marriages especially wives to soldiers busy drinking beer even late in the night shame

  32. hule wa mukulu

    i have a question to all those busy saying side chicks shud keep their dignity en blah blah….u think tizadya dignity?

  33. PADRE

    Good advice but worse still there is a scourge of contracting STIs and HIV/AIDS virus.Many side chicks are on ARVS.

  34. Uncle Charles

    COMPROMISE- The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everyone believes he has got the largest share. It is not just about love. The side … may be having what she wants and it may not be love.

  35. HIV MONSTER

    Im waiting for all that love fornication and adulterly including you ule mukulu.Im the grim reaper of all sexual sins.

  36. Prince Mande

    Men stick to your wives and together look after your children. Side chicks only bring agony in your lives and in your homes. With side chicks be sure you are not the only one. When you are home with your wife she will be with another sausage carrier.Now imagine falling in a ditch full of mud because that’s what you men do. Someone screws your so called chick and you are next, in the mud. Yack!

  37. L92

    I’m a proud side chic. My man gets what he doesn’t get from his wife and in exchange my rent, groceries, transportation and entertainment are covered. It’s a fair transaction. If his wife let him do anal or Cum in the mouth then maybe he would have stayed put. For now I give and take..all satisfying

  38. Armyworm Phiri

    There ‘re few men Vs women so lets learn 2 share with the sexually starved so called ‘side chiks,’ if not ‘side kicks on men’s pockets. Otherwise side chiks ‘re there 4 checks & balances same in politics we hav opposition. But am asking these side chiks 2 learn 2 keep secrets about their married customers frm their wives 2 preserve harmony in their marriages since nothing can b done, its natural though pipo are killing each other.

  39. Muzo

    Married women should learn to satisfy their men fully so that when they go to the side chicks,there’s no sperm left to ejaculate and keep it up all long. Other wise this issue will not end.

  40. Emmanuel musosa

    I think this is one of the reason why girlfriend’s are Killing people’s husband’s. Good advice

  41. Joe

    Ladies are really competing thinking married men can satify them in their needs so that they can maintain their standards and high profile to their friends.

  42. Stete

    Seriously..
    Some ladies should wake up….dont just be used as trash you worth much more….

  43. Giks

    The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is life.

  44. chisanga boyd

    Lesa somone

  45. Lamfrack

    Good advise,ladies think again,to be used like sex machines sure,and you married men what do you want that you have never tasted before

  46. Chisanga Brighton

    Thats very true.
    Girls open your eyes not only your legs
    You’ve a better life only if you’re focused and determined to be successful in life.
    Dream big and aim high like Muzo Alphonso sang. .

  47. Pailot

    If women who are single they don’t want to be getting married let them continue with married men. Money can’t buy love and we don’t want to see a girl being prayed 4 her to get married while she have a married man whom she know he can’t marry her. So look for a single man for u to be married because God blessed the marriage.

  48. Akapondo munchende

    All what men look for is submission and total satisfaction when needed

  49. sam-gize

    I cu

  50. 123451997

    s u r e

  51. DR ZAMANDE

    @Muzo dont make laugh that will only prolong the sexual pleasure for the side chick since enjaculation will take longer to happen.An erect penis is all these side chicks need but lets stop this adulterly its sin.

  52. Tk

    Chicks are after money and a lot of material things so what they go through is a payment for what they get cause their interest is money.

  53. Kecy

    dey lv mular

  54. sexmachine

    sidechicks should come to me for free sex am single with a big mboro

  55. ZeBige

    In Bemba we say “umweo wa muntu waba mu matwi “.

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