Opinion: Are Women Desperate To Give Men Pleasure In Bed?

I guess I have not written in a while and let’s see profession now deters me but well can I state that I do like my new job and I have fallen in love with Ndola, it’s a peaceful city very ideal to raise a family.

However, everyone knows I am a social life and I have tried out the social joints in Ndola and one thing amazes me INSUNKO.

Yes snuff, sniffing tobacco, insunko and now crowned BLACK COCAIN.

Whatever corner I turned to people were snorting this stuff and nope, not my grandma but that beautiful slay queen and diva were snorting this stuff and others roll it up and place it between gums and bottom lip. Curiosity got the best of me and did I try it? YES I DID!

I am not going to give a medical account of my experience but I will share a descriptive account of my experience with insunko.


By Tilyenji Mwanza

I was on my third hunters dry, I could feel the music in my feet, Chimwemwe dance rhythm engulfing my body as I sat in a circle of beautiful ladies, laughter characterized the environment as men offered to buy more drinks for our table.

And there she was I call her queen, as she is as elegant as a queen, when she strolls she moves with a grace of a peacock, pop from her bag was this ugly looking plastic and I knew what it was. She shared the contents among her three friends. She mashed the finely ground moist tobacco between her fingers and palm into a little ball and swiftly placed it between her gum and bottom lip and sniffed the residue up her nose. And in unison they all sniffed and some sneezed. She closed her eyes as if to take it all in, shook her head and picked her wine glass to take swig of her drink.

I had asked before as to why they took it and one response to date stands out for me; it makes my body warm, when my husband or any other man touches me they say am warm, it boosts my sex drive, I change from a lady to a freak and additionally it relaxes my muscles.

That night I made up my mind I was going to try it, she handed me the tobacco and showed me how to roll it till it stuck together into a little bolus and I place it between my lip and gum.

A sudden sensation enveloped my body, it was a tingling sensation as opposed to warmth I hated it, it felt like bristles trying to grow out my body, and I wanted to spit it. I stood up to head to the toilet and then it hit me, boom! My head felt light, it was spinning, my vison blurred.

I knew I had to get it out of my mouth but being a lady I cannot spit in public, so with so many struggles I managed to cross the lawn and made it to the bathroom and spat it out.

I did not feel warm neither did I feel a higher sex drive but I felt I had no control over my body, my head was still light headed, it was spinning and my forehead felt heavy, the prikky, tingly sensation continued on my skin, I felt drunk, nauseated and I just wanted to go home but I knew I could not drive because even my sight was doubled and blurry.

The queen helped me sit back on my chair and she laughed heartily and told me the mistake I made was to stand up, she told me to relax as the sensation would wear off.

I sat down to sip of water and after a couple of minutes it slightly wore off and the minute I could see I headed straight to my car to drive home.

MY REFLECTION AND FORECAST: After my experience I foresee a nation that will have its women addicted to tobacco, I do not know the medical defaults but google did show me some and they are not good. I also see a woman power that is rather not admirable because snuff gives you a certain energy that drives you to become violent. A lady was not created to act masculine it’s just not natural. Further the little biology I learnt tells me what I experienced was not normal and an abnormality like that has a very high potential to cause some sort of cancer.

I do not want to talk about how it makes sex more pleasurable or keeps the body warm for a desirable sensation for men because I stand to be biased. I think a relationship is more than sex even though I do not have a relationship as such but well I tend to believe even if you can summersault in bed he can still go but hell do not be deceived a greater part of a relationship, yes is sex!

However, to hear that ladies are actually placing this stuff on their private parts just so they can be more pleasurable to men for me is worrisome both socially and medically. Socially in a sense that women have become so desperate to want to pleasure men that they will subject their bodies to medical harm just to keep a man.

I pen down and hope some medical experts or social activists can check this because we are sliding into a generation that will have women addicted to tobacco and something tells me this not right.


  1. Mpombo

    My friend what you where given is not snuff but Kuber indian tobbaco going by the way it was being administered and the side effects experienced.There is no empirical data against insunko on healthy grounds.Hips,light complexion and warmth’re a magnet to a man apart from beauty.If a woman is cold it tastes like commiting homosexuality,so insuko is helping by lighting the embers for warmth.Those not using insunko will be left behind in singleness or prostitution due to men running away from the tundra or siberia climate

    • mulenga

      Comrade insunko do u actually know that it’s unprocessed tobacco….and tobacco causes cancer.Let’s try to sensitise our women of the Dangers!

  2. kris vee mashuko

    You’re right ain’t any good to our health

  3. bravo

    It’s desperation and animal behavior. Women are just too addicted to porngraphical acrobatics that comes from the devil minded people. That’s why men are afraid of marrying them.

  4. Gershom

    Hope that will happen coz me i can’t Marry a woman who doz that not even a single day Never

  5. martin chiyesu

    It’s not only ndola but the whole zambia more especially in pubs women

  6. Richard

    son of whore

  7. mr mambwe

    my sisters surely i tell you nd warn you, you will look like old women , with unprogressive minds lots of violences in your homes failling to keep your marrieges stop nd pray god .

    • Nicholas Kafula

      Sure don’t even try it I see how old women and men fold their faces when it starts working against them.its bad

  8. Fabiano Mwansa

    Stop insunko

  9. Dziwa Zako Mailosi

    Zambia is a Christian nation’ why doing this and where are we going?

  10. Spiritbeing

    Mmmm women are becoming more dirty now…. How can a normal being behave like a dog

  11. mwana alibe munyama

    when god created us he didnt say we should add our feelings.sex z a gift gvn from god.bt y r u so busy blaming god by adding ur volumd?

  12. fk

    eeeee stop that my sister just pray to god

  13. 1j

    when did women became cold that’s big lie

  14. 1j

    when did women became cold that’s big lie namely it is a falier by man that’s what makes a woman cold you just want to enter minus preparation shame on men.

  15. Mphatso Zulu

    That is why we are seeing women in places selling their own bodies because there are no men to marry them.
    Shame on them.

  16. Formidable

    The OP must think of the better OP_ ASAP.

  17. Papa

    Comment that shit stinks ya cant even kiss

  18. bsiamc

    Insuko may have variations in other tribes. In Western Province, it can be administered orally much more closely to the description of the author. It can as well be sniffed. When I was about 10yrs, I put some between the gums and lower lips while I inhaled some. The physiological and psychological changes were closer to the description or experience of the author. The cause of such eccentric reaction is normally due to the novice uptake. Overtime, you develop resistance to certain reactions. For example, I have seen good number of people who do not sneeze at all. All mind altering and dop-like substances have serious undesirable consequences. I would advise that, unless the substance are given under a presciption and are administered for health reasons, they should not be taken. Even Alcohol itself has significant consequences. For Insunko, there even allegations that others add chemical substances that could worsen the situation.


    Weulewe amamo ngebwa


    Amano ngebwa weulewe

  21. Immanuel

    Women should learn to take responsibility for them selves but not in this manner. Women are naturally beautiful and testy, but an unnatural woman is awful and bitter….

  22. John simuyota

    Very unfortunately

  23. Joezman

    U r even better some thy even put in thr dirt pussy

  24. Saidi

    Stop that sister

  25. Wise me

    Thank you for educating men. However, most of the responses are not genuine, especially those condemning. There is no doubt that issues of sex are sticky and most of devorces arise from the bedrooms. There are very few men who would go on with a beautiful, cold and clumsy woman. Thank God that the women themselves recognised this from time in memorial and have a tradition of coaching their own in some of these practices. This story also helps to understand why men go to brothels leaving their beautiful wives. Yes naturally we are created with survival abilities but God also provide things to improve life when properly applied. The unfortunate part of your story is you were trying to abuse this remedy. I say so because you jumped into it without fully researching for you would have known the side-effects before hand. I would also conclude that you have well advertised yourself that you are ready for marriage in Ndola and are eager to add value to your beauty and sexual life. God bless you with a happy marriage.
    To men who are condemning what you have discovered; hold your fire you might not know how your wives or girlfriends sustain that pleasure. Women are very, very secretive this conction is just one of them. By the way you are a good writer. I wish you could produce a novel.

  26. Muso d

    Only a dog can marry such a girl.

  27. clever Munakanyemba

    That’s y a God fearing lady is the best I believe…

  28. Autoimmune

    Comment. sssounds true but no one approves it

  29. DCEE CY 4

    Women you were born human but turning into dogs shame on you dogs

  30. Pchi

    Oh God intervene

  31. Wise me

    Please don’t insult innocent people if you are a dog this is a forum for normal human beings.

  32. PADRE


  33. Sircode Derrick

    Stop insunko it z of no use

  34. chiyoya

    say no to insuko…

  35. wayne

    seriouly..!.. women how can u get cold when u’re not a reptile, all beings are warm, dont be deceived, there’s no other good thing like GOD’s creation… my sister you are perfect the way GOD created you

  36. José

    U Lady’s who Doe’s that u better stop that attitude!

  37. B.I.Get

    Insunko is also a drug bane! It causes cancer like kuber. My great grandmother used to take the stuff not as sexual booster but as a drug. She stopped in her late years, five to six years later she died and the insunko she used to sniff started coming out her nostrils for 2days until she was buried. This is real story. Sex is good that is true when are married, the devil is manipulating you so that you get addicted to sex.ladies taking insunko,watching pone movies is demonic and I don’t regret by saying this, anything against the Lord is sin.A good relationship, good food are factors especially to men.you can impress a man who is not your husband just for one night stand,umwaume nga liule ninshi liule,your bodies are so precious ladies and are temples of the holy ghost. However, I would encourage some ladies both married and single find time to spend with eldest experienced holy spirit filled women who can share with you how they have been sastfying their husbands in bed without insunko. Sisters activities ya mubwalwa ala nififine.

  38. mulenga

    Insunko is unprocessed tabacco which like any other tobacco can cause cancer….most women and small girls need to be sensitised.The large part are doing it based on ignorance!

  39. FB:@Raes kidesha

    Y’ll tryna say men like hips,light complexion niboza…Men are different my fellow black people??..I sm black as well but I follow girls with good altitude not girls tryna be who they ain’t at all…Nd let me tell u something “Those tryna apply carolite ma dear u ar jxt wasting your time to do that as a result u ar gonna ragret… #Am_done ?@Raes_kidesha

  40. womba

    this insuko bane should be discouraged at all costs

  41. David

    That’s only practised by uneducated fools thinking they are right forgetting that their brain is damaged by the same substance and the children they produce from the same sex they enjoy are deficient.

    • bkm

      Surely some laddies are too cold while others are warm. When you will this you will agree with me

  42. JK

    Such people who do such kind of behaviors, they are not born again. They are not in Christ and Chris is not in them. They are simply slaves to sin, and have become friends with the worldly things which are doomed to pass away. We are in the last days and Jesus is coming soon, “let the evildoer still do evil, and filthy still be filthy, and the righteous still do right, and holy be holy” behold, Jesus is bringing his recompense with him, to repay each one for want he has done (Revelation 22 vs 11-12). Blessed are those who are Born Again and Christ liventh in them!

  43. JK

    People who do such kind of behaviors, they are not born again. They are not in Christ and Chris is not in them. They are simply slaves to sin, and have become friends with the worldly things which are doomed to pass away. We are in the last days and Jesus is coming soon, “let the evildoer still do evil, and filthy still be filthy, and the righteous still do right, and holy be holy” behold, Jesus is bringing his recompense with him, to repay each one for want he has done (Revelation 22 vs 11-12). Blessed are those who are Born Again and Christ liventh in them!

    • Mulonyeni nyirongo

      That z the stupidity of beer drinking women, does it mean that insunko z the new sex driver? Let’s be in God’s shadow please.

  44. sunko

    sunko makes a vagina smaller and tight

  45. Mulonyeni nyirongo

    Zambia, we need to be meditated to prayers on women who takes insunko

  46. Tom London

    General Kanene and Robby G have a song regarding insuko taking by Zambian ladies . I hope the two artists told Zambians facts in their song .
    I had a nsuko smoking girlfriend in kabwe unfortunately I didn’t notice the difference from others in bed .

  47. Elvis

    nsuko is very bad!

    • concern

      nsuko is demonic. open your eyes women ze devil has capitalized on your mind.

  48. Jms

    What a wonderful situation my sister that isn’t INSUNKO but a drug be carefully with these people who don’t have what to do in life.

  49. francis mbeba

    pray to God for help

  50. Trevor Hugheart

    Life is presoious guys nsuko cozes canser.

  51. Trevor Hugheart

    Can u manage always moving with a bottle of nsunko some time ba Zambia just think big and reason before doing something.pipo are dieing with canser are not stupid so try to prevent urselfs from such activities like snuffing nsunko smoking weed etc.

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